Get the HELL OFF my back!!!

I received a call last weekend from a person... He ask me I got received the money on the 1st. What money? The money which was always bank into my acct for expenses of my kids. I say NO. I have not received any of the money before chinese new year onwards. Someone called me before and say they are gonig to pass the money to someone else as instructed. I say ok of course. Not like Im a begger or what. They dont gif then I dun take.

But what makes me f**king unhappy... That guy actuali thought the money is being pass to me as usual every month but its not. He ask me got received the money this month? If not why someone called him as ask him to pass some money to us. I say I din not ask for any money. It is yours side who makes decision.

I am Eileen. I hate asking money from others, even my parents. But I really dont have a choice. But I will mot go ask drom pple when they have already say from that month onwards the money will be pass to someone else.

So the "someone else", can you go tell them it is you who are taking the money nor me.

Thank you.

Confirming !!!!!!

I have spoken to my boss about my quittin from the post. She ask me why and I told her her straight... The money Im earning now really cant cover anything at all, except our basic needs in life like meals and kids things. Then she say will i reconsiderate if she put me in a full time basic.. but I cant work in Sat since Belle got tuition. Then she propose to let me work part time Mon to Fri, 9am to 5pm, basic $1k.

She ask me to go consider then let her know. I haven't told her i got job offer liao.. Then She say no matter what I still have to gif her 2 wks time to find a replacement although Im a PT which need not notice if Im quitting. I say ok and I told the staff at the new company that I need to work till 10th April. SHe say ok and ask me to start work at 15th April.

So after confirming with my goin-to-be new company, I told my boss that I got a fren wo is introducing me a job and the salary is $**00. She ask me to go make sure its relly that amount. She say normally they say tis amount but always not true... I just keep quiet.

After thinking throughly, its better to have a job with medical and annual leaves and deduction of CPF since I wanted to take a flat of my own with my kids. This is what I always wish for.

Anyway, after 15th, I will be really veri busy.. Cos need to work longer time... Now PT already like no time...

I got a new job!!! Yeah!!

Yesh!!! Finally!! I got a job from my last interview!!!

Its at Bukit Batok. Although need to change bus, but at least its near my house and I like the benefits and working hours they offer.

1. Working hours: 9am to 6pm.
(Enough time for me to go prepare for work after kids go school and fetch them straight after work)

2. No need to work on sat. Its a 5 days work.
(So that I can brim Belle to her Tuition as usual every sat morning!)

3. No OT at all cos they actually concern about the safety of the office ladies.
(Like that I dont have to afraid I will be late to fetch them)

4. Salary (Nondisclosure)
(Im satisfied of the salary they offer and there will also be a increment after 3 mth probation period)


This job is what I have being finding!! At my house area, working hour matches my time, 5 days work week, no OT needed!!

But I still dunno how to tell my boss Im goin to stop work. They actually hope I can start on 1st April... Although alot of pple say PT no need to give notice.. But I dunno my boss will let me go so easy anot... Haiz...

But still "Ren Bu Wei Ji, Tian Zhu De Mien" (chinese saying). I really need to head for a better prospect cause of my kids. My expenses have increased ever since Belle went to Primary school. Beside I have to settle my debts. I have to settle everything myself cause there is no one to help me and I cant expect to wait for help... Everytime I stretch my hands out for help, I felt so disgrace... Makes me have no dignity at all...

Anyway, will update the outcome!!

WISH ME GOOD LUCK!! :)